SwingSet – The Rules

At SwingSet we strive to create a fun, comfortable environment for all players. Unfortunately, there have been recent complaints which we feel are very important to address. As such, listed below are four simple rules which, if everyone follows them, will make the orgy fun for everyone. Thank you to the vast majority of our 700+ members who have followed these rules perfectly since day one, and thank you to everyone for reading through these rules and making your best efforts to respect them. I wish you all a happy orgy!

– Jamie Sweet

Special Note: Please be aware that both photography and video recording takes place at every event, and that the resulting photos and videos may be posted to publicly accessible sites.

Rule #1 : No pressure, no stress

Play with those you’re comfortable with, when you’re ready. This means do not try to pressure anyone into playing with you. Ask politely if they are interested, and if they decline do not ask them for a reason, do not try to convince them to change their mind and do not ask them to play again during that event. Your fellow players are at the event to have fun and have zero obligation to have sex with you. When in doubt, the best and most simple approach is, “Hi there. Would you like to play?” If someone is harassing you, please immediately report the matter to JamieSweet via PM. Intentionally pressuring other guests will result in a month long ban on the first offense, and a lifetime ban on the second. 

Rule #2 : Be kind with your words

Be polite and show respect to everyone at the orgy at all times. If someone asks you if you’d like to play, and you don’t wish to, simply say, “no, thank you”. There is no reason to reject someone harshly. If someone is being a pest, please immediately report the matter to JamieSweet via PM so that she can deal with the issue. Likewise, if someone rejects you harshly, please let Jamie know about that too. Being intentionally rude to other guests will result in a month long ban on the first offense, and a lifetime ban on the second. 

Rule #3 : Be generous with your body

Its fine to come and just watch the orgy, and to be as picky as you wish with those you choose to play with. That said, when you do choose to play, put all your effort into making the experience a good one for your partner. If your partner is obviously not making any effort, such as leaving very long pauses between posts, or making posts which are extremely short, please let JamieSweet know via PM. Players which demonstrate that they do not have the ability to play considerately will be warned and may face a temporary or even permanent ban.

Rule #4 : Colds will NOT be tolerated

I’m sad to report that this has actually happened at our events. If you accidentally cold someone, please immediately PM them and apologize. If someone colds you, report it ASAP to JamieSweet via PM. Intentional colding is grounds for an immediate lifetime ban. DO NOT COLD ANYONE.


Becoming a Member

There is a new way to become a member of SwingSet. This procedure should help White Breeze to work on your requests more effective.

Step 1:
Please add Charlotte (CharlotteLove#3849) at Discord.

Step 2:
Please answer the following questions in a discord message to Lisa:

1) What’s your ingame name and when did you register to 3DXChat? Are you fluent in English?
2) Have you read the rules on the homepage?
3) Why do you want to join SwingSet?
4) Are you descriptive in sex when you partner someone at 3DXChat?
5) Do you think your partners in 3DXChat enjoy having sex with you? Is it fun to have sex with you? What do you have to offer?

These questions also explain what SwingSet expects from your side. Thanks for taking time to answer these questions.

Send your answers to Charlotte and you will receive an answer when you can join SwingSet.

As a SwingSet member we expect from you that you add our badge to your profile gallery (see below).

Thank you in advance!


The Badge

Please support us by downloading this badge and add it to your profile gallery when you join! Clicking on it will take you to the image file. Right-Click and “Save as…” to get it on your computer.


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Events

SwingSet events open every  Sunday at 19:00 UTC (20:00 CET / 11:00 PST / 14:00 EST). All events last exactly four hours and are accessible to SwingSet members only. Please note that non-members will NOT be added to the guest list outside of regular SwingSet office hours.

Coming events